Everyone has had or has one. The office crush, the girl who works at the coffee shop, or the guy who walks past your office every day at 3pm. We all have had a big crush at one point, and have pondered how exactly to get them to notice us. Often times, the hardest part in dating is getting to the first date. If the crush is really worth your effort, then once you get the first date, things usually run pretty smoothly. Are there any sure fire techniques to ensure that you get the perfect date? Not necessarily, but there are some suggestions and hints you can use that will better your chances of getting that office cutie to notice you.
First things first, get in touch with yourself and make sure you look as good as you can. I know it sounds superficial and shallow, but first impressions last a lifetime. If you want to get noticed, you want to make sure it’s for the right reasons.
Don’t rush to work with behead or throw on mismatched clothing. Make sure you are presentable at all times, and smile. You never know who is checking you out at any given time. This does not mean that you have to change yourself and invest in material goods, but honestly, if you want your crush to notice you, do you want it to be because your hair or makeup looks like it has been left in the same place since last night at the club?
The major key to success here is to put yourself in positive situations. There is no sense in simply standing by and watching the perfect guy or girl walk past every day. If you know the coffee girl gets off work at 4, try and be there at 3:50 and catch her as she gets off work. If the office cutie walks past your desk every day at 3pm, drop a pen in the hallway while he is coming.
You never know what kind of small interaction could lead to eventually winning a date and finding that perfect catch. The key here is to take actions into your own hands. Don’t simply sit back and wait for him or her to fall into your lap. You have to be proactive and pursue what you want, if you truly want to have it.